Here at LoserEx, we consider ourselves experts on dating. And as such, we feel
qualified to give out unsolicited advice. Unlike other advice columns, we're not
very tactful. Actually, we're pretty bitchy. We plan to continue giving our
advice to people who sound like they need it, whether they want it or not. If
you actually want our advice on something, feel free to email us.
Today's
questions come from The Washington Post's "Dear Prudence" chat:
Dear Prudence,
I fell in love with a married man and slept with him. Clearly one of my worst
moments as a human being. When his wife found out about our affair we ended
things. Somehow their daughter found out, and she has been harassing me ever
since. She wrote me several long letters in which she told me how much she
disliked me and how gross and pathetic I was. She messaged the letters to my
Facebook friends before I made my friend list private. I think she got my phone
number and began prank calling me several times a night, sometimes three times
an hour around 2 a.m. I changed my phone number. Now she is showing up where I
work (a department store) and coming into my area. She has done this twice. I am
always hesitant to talk to her because the wife and my affair partner threatened
legal action if I ever contacted them or so much as looked at one of their kids.
I do not have the money to hire a lawyer to contact their lawyer. Should I
accept this teenager's behavior as a consequence of the affair, or am I within
my rights to find a way to get her to stop bothering me?
Restraining order. Seriously. Don't think twice about it.
Dear Prudence,
I am against torturing animals. I never thought I would need to clarify that,
because I assumed most people oppose torturing animals. Then I met met my
daughter's fiancé. I found out he was arrested twice as a teen for maiming and
torturing animals - his own and others. He has apparently not had an incident
since he has to do tons of community service when he was seventeen. He and my
daughter claim his abuse of animals was a reaction to his stepfather's abuse of
him. My daughter thinks it is ridiculous to care about something her fiancé did
years ago. But ever since finding out, I have not been able to look at her
fiancé the same way. Am I overreacting by not fully trusting him?
You're not overreacting. He's probably a serial killer.
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